March 16, 2026

How To Stop Being So Hard On Yourself

How To Stop Being So Hard On Yourself
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Why are we so hard on ourselves?

That voice in your head that says
"I'm so stupid."
"What's wrong with me?"
"Why did I do that?"

We all have it.

But what most people don't realize is that there's another voice inside us too — a quieter one.
The voice that supports us, encourages us, and actually has our back.

In this episode, we talk about:

• The two voices inside all of us
• Why the critical voice is so loud
• How to recognize the calm voice that has your back
• How to start building a better relationship with yourself
• Why keeping promises to yourself builds self-trust

This is Part 1 of the Becoming Your Own Best Friend series.

Your inner voice doesn't have to be your biggest critic.

It can become your biggest ally.

Try this week's challenge:
Notice the friend voice within you and see what happens.


0:00 The Voice In Your Head
1:12 The Critic We All Hear
2:30 The Other Voice Inside You
4:05 Watching the Conversation Inside Your Mind
6:00 Why the Critical Voice Is So Loud
7:55 The Slackline Example
9:40 The Calm Voice That Has Your Back
11:25 Being Honest Without Being Mean to Yourself
13:00 Building a Relationship With Yourself
14:10 Keeping Promises to Yourself
16:00 Learning to Notice the Friend Voice
17:25 This Week's Challenge