Why You React The Way You Do

You know those behaviors you do that frustrate you, the ones that make you turn against yourself?
Shutting down. People pleasing. Overreacting. Pulling away. Assuming the worst. Freaking out before thinking. Taking things the wrong way. Overthinking. Over-apologizing.
We all have patterns that feel embarrassing or confusing, and the moment they show up, we start the “Why am I like this?” spiral.

But in this episode, we talk about why these reactions aren’t random or “broken.” They make sense. They come from fear, insecurity, wanting to be liked, past experiences, self-image, and even your nervous system trying to protect you.

When you understand the why, you stop hating the pattern — and you open the door to changing it.

In Part 3 of the Acceptance Series, we break down:

• The real reasons behind the behaviors you don’t like

• How fear, judgment, and insecurity shape your reactions

• What your nervous system is trying to protect you from

• Why turning on yourself shuts down growth

• How to catch yourself before falling into old habits

• Why acceptance gives you the power to choose differently

• How to work with yourself instead of against yourself

• Why change is messy and slow — and totally normal
  

Try This:
When you catch yourself reacting in a way you don’t like:
Pause. Take a breath.
Recognize what’s underneath it.
Be a friend to yourself — supportive, not judgmental — and choose your next move with intention.